Saturday, May 05, 2007
My Family's First Casualty to the Iraqi Civil War


Anmar, my cousin, was 23 years old. He left his house a few days ago heading to Syria with two of his best friends, all Sunnis. His plan was to go to Syria, find a big house or apartment, rent it and prepare it for the family to go and live there. He volunteered to go and take care of this issue. Although he was the youngest among my cousins, but he was clever and brave.

Anmar and his friends were stopped by militias a few miles outside Baghdad, the police told my family. No one knows what happened after that, but the bodies were found three days ago in the morgue.

The "surge" is working. This is the fate of the Iraqi youth!

When I talked with my aunt, all she kept saying was “thank God for everything. We still have you and the rest of your cousins. Thank God for everything.”

I will start counting now, one done and no one knows how many to go!
 
posted by 24 Steps to Liberty at 12:14 PM | Permalink |


38 Comments:


At 2:24 PM, Blogger annie

oh my god Omar.

 

At 3:08 PM, Anonymous K

Omar,

I am so sorry.

 

At 4:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous

24,
I am so sorry for your family's loss. I hope some sanity returns to your world soon. Anmar was the age of my own nephew. His life was just beginning and now it it finished. And for what?
Anon from NOLA

 

At 5:19 PM, Blogger Treasure of Baghdad

I have only tears. I don't even know what to say.

 

At 5:39 PM, Blogger RhusLancia

Omar,
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope & pray for your stength & safety.

 

At 6:04 PM, Anonymous Jeffrey

Omar,

My deepest condolences. Our prayers are for Anmar, you, and your entire family.

*

 

At 6:37 PM, Blogger Iraqi Mojo

I'm so sorry for your loss, Omar. I hope you and your family stay safe. El be8a2 fee 7ayatek.

 

At 7:55 PM, Blogger dancewater

so very sorry to hear of your loss.

 

At 8:01 PM, Blogger David

Omar, I am very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

 

At 10:51 PM, Blogger perry1961

I never got the Catholic/Protestant fighting in Ireland,and can't understand the Shia/Sunni animosity either. How can people worshipping the same God from the same book,hate each other enough to kill? So what if they hold their arms different when they pray. How can people be so intolerant? My condolences on your cousins death. It was a senseless reason to die.

 

At 11:25 PM, Blogger perry1961

Btw Omar,I wanted to voice my two cents on the New Orleans article posted previously. I've lived here all my life,and see things a bit differently. The government has been extremely generous to people affected by Katrina. Many thousands are still living in $40,000 trailors provided free of charge. Many billions have been provided to local and state governments. Many more billions were provided directly to residents in the form of cash and vouchers. Louisiana has paid people for much of their loss,even if they weren't insured. The government isn't in the business of rebuilding homes. That just doesn't happen here. Those homes haven't been rebuilt,because the owners took the money and ran. Or worse,they're still getting free housing elsewhere. My wife and kids stayed in a hotel,at the Red Crosses expense,while I gutted my house and got enough of it functional for them to have somewhere to sleep. FEMA provided several thousand dollars during those first few weeks. That was a GIFT. Taxpayers have no obligation to be so generous. My family was back home 3 weeks after Katrina. It was another month before the insurance adjuster showed up. Yes,insurance is a fact of life in the U.S. Without it,you are shit out of luck after a disaster. Yet,even those people without insurance received compensation this time. Unless the occupants died during Katrina,there's no excuse for those homes not being restored a long time ago. I'll always be grateful to the Red Cross,the Salvation Army(which provided hot meals and cold drinks during the long weeks it took to get utilities restored and businesses re-opened)FEMA,and the good people of the United States for their generosity.

 

At 12:14 AM, Anonymous Anonymous

perry, i strongly urge you to delete your insensitive posts and place them on the previous thread where they may be appreciated.

this post will be deleted thereafter.

 

At 12:52 AM, Blogger 24 Steps to Liberty

Thank you all. I appreciate your words and sympathy. I told my family about what you said and forwarded them your words. They all thank you.
Omar

 

At 2:29 AM, Blogger Zeyad

My sincere condolences. It's terrible.

 

At 7:25 AM, Blogger cile

oh no! that's terrible indeed.
my thoughts are with you.

 

At 9:51 AM, Blogger dancewater

perry1961: your comments on both Northern Ireland and the current tragedy of Iraq shows how uninformed you truly are. These type of situations don't "just happen" there are people in power who are inspiring them to happen, and the motive behind it is control of the area and the resources.

And, doing this shows a total lack of morality, which is unfortunately found in a few in each and every group of people on our small planet.

They cause a lot of misery.

 

At 10:01 AM, Blogger Truth About Iraqis

Ina lillah wina ilayhi raji3oun.

Omar, Allah yer7ama.

I cannot but despair at what his mother must be feeling.

My heart is with you my friend.

Allah yer7ama.

 

At 12:50 PM, Anonymous Melantrys

I only now saw your post...

*hugs you*

 

At 12:59 PM, Blogger Bonnie

Peace and blessings to you and your family.

My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry that my country is involved in this wrongdoing.

 

At 1:18 PM, Blogger 3eeraqimedic

Omar
Sorry just doesn't sum it up, no words can.
God give you and all his family strength.

 

At 2:55 PM, Blogger Sheko Mako

my sincere condolences and sorry for this news

 

At 4:25 PM, Anonymous An Italian.

Omar,
my condolences and my sorrow.

 

At 4:26 PM, Blogger annie

with all my heart i hope Anmar's spirit heals yours. thinking of you, your family and your aunt especially, sending my love.

no words can ever express the burden of shame and sorrow i feel for the part my country has played in the loss of your beloved.

 

At 6:37 PM, Blogger Fatima

Allah yirhamuh, and give you and his family patience in these trying times.

 

At 6:37 PM, Blogger CMAR II

24Steps,

I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

 

At 7:39 PM, Blogger Fayrouz

24,

I'm so sorry for your family's loss. I pray and hope your family stays safe during those difficult times.

 

At 7:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous

I also wanted to express my deep condolences. These deaths happen and are experienced as numbers, but they are not numbers. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

-Jeff in Chicago

 

At 8:10 PM, Blogger perry1961

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At 9:54 PM, Blogger 24 Steps to Liberty

Please respect my grief and don’t publish any disagreements or discussions on this post because it is devoted to my cousin’s memory.

I will be back writing regularly in two days and the platform will be yours again then.

Thanks for your understanding.
Omar

 

At 12:09 AM, Blogger Em

Omar,

I feel so sad for you and your family.

In the course of the day, my thoughts often turn to the Iraqi people and to the turmoil within which they struggle to survive.

I dread reading news like this on the blogs I "track".

Through blogging our sense of being part of the family of humanity expands.

I send your aunt a virtual hug from one who is thinking of her loss and wishes she could comfort her.

And as for you, Omar, stay safe. Keep strong.

 

At 2:50 AM, Anonymous BlogIraqi

Sorry for you loss. May God bless his soul.

 

At 4:24 AM, Blogger bruno

I'm really sorry to hear this. What else can I say? The insanity must end.

 

At 2:32 PM, Blogger karim

البقية في حياتك عمر ...تعازي للاهل

 

At 3:04 PM, Anonymous kryptonite

24, I am very sorry that someone close to you has been murdered. Someone close to me has also been killed by the so called resistance. Without Bruno and Annie's encouragement, perhaps these precious individuals would still be here today.

 

At 3:57 PM, Blogger RhusLancia

kryptonite (& 24), I recently lost a distant cousin also (by marriage, not by blood though). My condolences to you, too.

 

At 9:21 AM, Anonymous Anonymous

praying for your heart to mend.

 

At 3:49 AM, Blogger cile

hey 24,
it catches my eye after reading http://theiraqiroulette.blogspot.com/2007/05/1052007.html
that there are more stories about people being killed on their way to Syria. does this mean something more, or does this 'happen all the time too'?

bests!